There's a lot of controversy surrounding ABC's new television offering Cougar Town. Courteney Cox stars as the bumbling, neurotic, unfiltered, insecure, desperate woman trying to reclaim the folly of her 20's post divorce. The problem is, she never had her 20's.
Her characterization is in the face of what a true cougar woman is, so much so, that one has to wonder if she acts this way at home.
Cougar women on my site complain, "This is NOT who we are as cougars! WRONG with this picture? "
Horny, older women.
What is wrong? willing to jump on anything with a pulse.
Nothing could be father from the truth. True Cougar women are discriminating and selective. They are not going to jump because some young guy hits them on a website. There are more young men from whom to choose.
Admittedly, there are some women out there who will dress inappropriately, hang out at bars and swill down white wine and take home younger men for casual sex. From my psychological perspective , These women have issues that warrant a diagnosis, possible medication and years of psychotherapy. Women who regularly participate in casual, indiscriminate sex did not so much when they were younger. This is not part of a cougar. Borderline Personality Disorder and the like.
For over a year Have you ever tried one? The minority of cougars are desperate, horny, aging floozies. In reality, the majority of cougar women are mothers, aunts, CEOs, nurses, computer programmers, advertising executives, office managers, lawyers, physicians, stay at home moms, and would no more act like the Cougar Town women in public than they would
What is wrong with the stereotype of the cougar woman? Grabbing men's butts in bars, throwing their legs over a man's shoulder in public to demonstrate their "flexibility" and acting out like junior high school girls is not why they are drawn to older women. Treating men like sex objects in an effort to "be equal"
Cougar behavior and in no words are disgusted. .yes, disgusted … Cougars are being portrayed by the media.
I see women in public "trying" to be a Cougar. They are trying to make them look comfortable in the (animal print) skin. Some of them even try to dumb down to the level of being trendy, talking hip and using the same lingo instead of having the man up and playing with him.
A younger man who is really dating and dating Cougar women do not like the same because they are used to meeting , These men are bored with girls who play games, only talk about themselves / hair / makeup and whine, and have no perspective on life. A true cougar woman embodies years of self-development, learning, perspective, wisdom and all things that it takes to make a woman of any age well rounded.
What's wrong with Cougar women is when they try to live up to (or down to) the stereotype of the media. These are not women who know who they are. These women are like Cox's character who are struggling with their identity and trying to make a difference. This is no way empowering to women.Immobilienmakler Heidelberg Makler Heidelberg
Source by Dr. Fayr Barkley, Ph.D.